You know the saying “God doesn’t give you more than you can handle”?… well I don’t like it! It presumes that God allows things to happen that are hurtful and harmful to us… just not more than we can handle…and that’s so not true!
We live in a fallible world, with pain and suffering, but God doesn’t cause that… it’s the world we currently exist in. He doesn’t make bad things happen to us, He helps us endure, get through and somehow come out better for it.
God is all love, and only wants what’s best for us. There’s a reason we’re here for a greater purpose that we don’t know or can’t see yet, but we will when we get to live with Him.
To ask God why He let’s these things happen is the wrong question, we need to be asking Him to help us get through it, for this is His promise to us… right here…right now.